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Everybody knows that positive affirmations are powerful ways to change your own behavior. We get how using positive statements can be the best way to overcome negative thoughts and start changing our actions. 

But for a lot of people, they can’t see how you can use affirmations for love. They get how you can use the law of attraction to change yourself, but not how you can change other people’s behavior through what you say to yourself. 

But the truth is, law of attraction affirmations for love don’t work by telling your future partner what to do! They work in your subconscious mind. As you come to believe that you are worthy of love and you become the person that this partner would fall for, you manifest love while focusing on yourself. 

These powerful law of attraction affirmations will pull genuine love into your life. As you commit to these positive love affirmations, changes in your mindset and behavior will draw your ideal partner into your life. That’s why so many of these romantic love affirmations are also self-love affirmations! Because your perfect partner is going to be attracted to your self love.

We’ll start today with how to write your own affirmations to attract the love of your life. Then, you’ll find 130 affirmations to help raise your positive vibrations. When the law of attraction is working for you, true love is on the way. 

(Before we get into the affirmations for love, I also wrote some affirmations for beauty a while back that you might like to check out!)

How to write your own law of attraction affirmations for love

When you’re working on custom law of attraction affirmations for love, you want to get as specific as you can. 

So, you’re not just looking for “a relationship”. You’re looking for “a healthy relationship” or “a relationship with unconditional love” or meeting the love of my life at exactly the right time”. 

Remember — all these affirmations should be written in the past or present tense. You either are experiencing or already experienced what you desire. So it’s not “I will meet my soul mate”, it’s “I met my soul mate and s/he is my perfect match”. 

Affirmations will manifest the best if you are speaking the energy that you’re looking for into the world. Using your affirmations and really visualizing and committing to that experience gives you the same high vibration that actually having the experience would.

​Your mind doesn’t know the difference between imagining an experience and having it, so really feeling yourself in these love manifestation affirmations will help you manifest that relationship. You’ll imagine yourself as the type of person that is happy in a healthy love, and you will be able to take on her positive outlook, her confidence, and her security in her relationship. 

Committing ourselves to good thoughts and gratitude help us attain the vibration of love, and then we are able to attract it. 

This is the happiest and healthiest way to start a relationship, because it doesn’t require you to work to find a partner. You can maintain high standards and expect a romantic partner who will be absolutely crazy about you, and that person will appear. If you can truly imagine yourself as a person who is deeply loved, that deep love will find you (often in unexpected ways!)

Trauma, past relationships, and affirmations for love

Many of us are limited in our ability to find love by our past experiences. 

If you have had traumatic relationships in the past, or you grew up around unhappy or unstable relationships, it can be hard to imagine what affirmations would even lead you to happiness.

And if you get the right affirmations, or you choose between the ones below to help you keep positive energy, it can still be very hard to believe that you can be happy. Bad relationships can make us feel damaged. Or, we can have a lot of negative self-talk that sounds a lot like that former partner. Or maybe we feel like we pick the wrong guys, over and over again. 

​If this sounds like you, a huge part of your affirmations process will be spending some time getting really clear and specific about what your healthy relationship looks like. This will help you retrain your mind to tell whether a potential new relationship is going to be real love or more drama. 

Remember: the person that you need to work on first is you! And that’s not because you did anything wrong or have anything to be ashamed of. But you’ve gotta build up your positive mindset and your self confidence so that you are attracting the abundance of love that you deserve.

Some affirmations that might specifically help people with relationship trauma:

• My partner’s love for me mirrors my love for myself. 
• I love my partner, and I love myself. 
• I’m so glad that my partner and I have such an equal relationship, and that we both love to take care of one another.
• I am happier now than my younger self could have imagined in her wildest dreams.
• I have healed myself and I found the right person for me easily. 
• I am so glad that I let go of my past relationships.

A quick note on ‘specific person’ affirmations for love

I’m going to be 100% honest with you here. 

You can try, and it might work. That specific person that you’ve had your eye on might be the kind of person who is able to be a great partner, and you might see positive results and loving relationships. 

The universe might say no, though. If that person is incapable of making you happy, no amount of affirmations will bring them to you. And if you keep building up your self-esteem and positive thinking, getting happier and healthier and practicing gratitude, you might get further away from them than ever. 

​(This is a GOOD THING, but I know that when you’re in love with someone who doesn’t seem interested, it’s hard to hear that.)

And what you definitely don’t want to do is get into something toxic through affirmations. If you keep saying “I am Kevin’s dream girl” but Kevin is a jerk, then you are not going to be raising your vibration or increasing your happiness. Because Kevin’s dream girl is probably also a jerk. 

This is the challenge with affirmations — if you are mostly focused on bettering yourself, you can see amazing improvements and put yourself on the right path for you. But the truly right path for you may not be the one you think you want. (You can spend two years with Kevin if you really want to! But it’ll be toxic and you’ll cry a lot, and you won’t come out of it happier or better off.) 

So — if you’re truly crazy about somebody, go ahead and throw in an affirmation or two that refers to them specifically. But make sure the majority of your law of attraction affirmations for love are focused on you. You getting stronger, you getting more peaceful, you getting out of your comfort zone. 

That way, you know that if the person does show up on your doorstep, they’re going to be able to meet you as the best version of yourself. And you’re not making yourself smaller or weaker just to date some jerk.

Specific details of your dream partner 

Balancing the specific in your affirmations can be tough. I feel like a lot of people who are writing on this topic encourage you to get incredibly specific. And sometimes that’s fine when it’s stuff. 

Like, if you say “I love to wake up in my apartment with floor-to-ceiling windows”, like, okay, sure, that’s a you decision. 

But when you’re doing affirmations for love, it’s better to not get crazy specific about your partner. Instead, focus on what your needs are and how they would get met by your partner. 

Because if you’re talking about “6 foot 2.5 inches, from Virginia but living in New York, and he’s an architect, but he only designs animal shelters”…. All of that is kind of beside the point, and that person probably doesn’t exist. 

Manifestation isn’t going to pull a partner out of a magic cauldron or build one like Frankenstein. It’s going to raise your vibration to attract great things into your life. 

This doesn’t mean that you need to take whatever shows up. You can say, 

• I am so attracted to my partner. 
• Having a shared background with my partner makes me feel so understood. 
• I love that she has a job that can provide for us and also do good in the world.

And you might get someone like what’s described above, and you might get someone who shares your religion and does Doctors Without Borders. 

So, you get a better result when you focus on what you’re looking to feel or experience rather than building an imaginary partner like a Sims character. Write affirmations that focus on your experience of the relationship and let the universe figure out how it happens. 

How to use the following affirmations:

Grab the ones that resonate with you. You’ll probably want them from all different sections to build a full picture. 

Even if some sections make more sense for you (like you’re already in a relationship and you’re mostly focused on that) you may want some from the other sections!

Law of attraction affirmations for your soul mate

• I deepen my relationship with my soul mate with every positive thought I have.
• My heart is open and ready to receive the love of my soul mate.
• I trust that the universe is guiding my soul mate to me right now.
• Meeting my soul mate has been one of the best experiences of my life.
• I deserve to have a deep and meaningful connection with my soul mate.
• I am grateful for the love and companionship that my soul mate brings into my life.
• The bond between my soul mate and me is unbreakable and filled with love.
• I am patient and confident that my soul mate is on their way to me.
• I love sharing my life with my perfect soul mate.
• I radiate love and positivity and my soul mate is effortlessly drawn to me.
• My soul mate complements me perfectly in every way.
• I am worthy of a loving and fulfilling relationship with my soul mate.
• I trust the timing of my life because I met my soul mate at the perfect moment.
• The love I have for myself attracted the perfect soul mate into my life.
• I am surrounded by love and positive energy that attracted my soul mate to me.
• My soul mate brings out the best in me, and I bring out the best in them.
• Every day with my soul mate gets better and better.
• I am grateful for the lessons and growth that my soul mate relationship brings into my life.
• I believe in the power of love to bring my soul mate to me.
• I am excited about the adventures and experiences I will share with my soul mate.
• My soul mate loves me as powerfully as I love them.
• The love I share with my soul mate is deep, meaningful, and everlasting.
• I trust my soul mate completely.
• I am open to giving and receiving love with my soul mate in a healthy and fulfilling way.
• I am grateful for the soul mate connection that brings joy and happiness into my life every day.

Law of attraction affirmations for healthy and happy love

• My partner and I deeply love and respect each other.
• We communicate openly and honestly, strengthening our bond every day.
• Our relationship is built on trust, understanding, and mutual support.
• My partner and I prioritize quality time together, nurturing our connection.
• Every challenge we face brings us closer together, reinforcing our love.
• Our love is unconditional and grows stronger with each passing moment.
• I celebrate my partner, and my partner celebrates me. 
• We laugh together often, creating joyful memories that sustain us.
• Our relationship is a sanctuary of peace and happiness.
• We are a team, facing life’s adventures hand in hand.
• We cherish and respect each other’s individuality and differences.
• Our love is built on a foundation of friendship and genuine affection.
• We express gratitude for each other daily, appreciating the little things.
• We are committed to growing together, both personally and as a couple.
• I feel equal to my partner in our relationship.
• We forgive each other readily and learn from our mistakes.
• Our relationship is a source of inspiration and positivity for others.
• We support each other’s dreams and aspirations wholeheartedly.
• We find joy in simply being together, whether in silence or conversation.
• Our love is resilient, able to weather any storm that comes our way.
• We prioritize our emotional and physical well-being, individually and together.
• Every day, I am grateful for the love and companionship I receive from my partner.
• Our future together is bright and filled with endless possibilities.
• My partner and I have a relationship filled with laughter, kindness, and warmth.
• Our love story is one of happiness, growth, and everlasting love.

Law of attraction affirmations for specific person

If you choose to do this, use them sparingly. Sub in the person’s name when you say them. 

• (Name) has brought me so much happiness in our relationship.
• With (name), I am truly my best self. 
• I have a grateful heart when I think about my relationship with (name). 
• (Name) is a partner who has improved all areas of my life.
• (Name) supports me in every way, and I am always there to support (name). 

Law of attraction affirmations with specific details about an unknown partner

(see the above section about ‘specific details of your dream partner’ to learn why these are the way they are!)

• My partner’s love for me is unwavering and unconditional.
• I feel deeply cherished and appreciated by my partner every day.
• Their support strengthens and uplifts me, giving me the courage to pursue my dreams.
• I am secure in the knowledge that my partner always has my best interests at heart.
• They listen to me attentively and understand me on a profound level.
• I am never alone; my partner stands by me through everything.
• Their affectionate gestures and words of encouragement fill my heart with warmth.
• I trust my partner completely, knowing they respect and honor me for who I am.
• Their kindness and thoughtfulness make every moment spent together meaningful.
• I feel safe and protected in their embrace, both physically and emotionally.
• My partner’s belief in me inspires me to strive for greatness in all aspects of life.
• They make me laugh effortlessly, bringing joy and lightness into our relationship.
• I am grateful for the little ways they show their love and care each day.
• My partner’s unwavering support empowers me to overcome challenges and makes me braver every day.
• My partner’s generosity and selflessness touch my heart deeply.
• They make me feel valued and respected, appreciating my unique qualities.
• Our relationship is a sanctuary where I can be vulnerable and authentic.
• I am blessed to have a partner who celebrates my successes as if they were their own.
• Their encouragement pushes me to reach new heights and explore new possibilities.
• I am surrounded by their love, which nurtures and sustains me through life’s ups and downs.
• My partner’s loyalty and dedication make our bond unbreakable.
• They prioritize our relationship, making time together a priority in their life.
• I feel understood and accepted by them in a way that is profound and fulfilling.
• Their thoughtfulness in anticipating my needs demonstrates their deep care and consideration.
• With my partner, I am seen, heard, and loved unconditionally, making me feel cherished beyond measure.

Law of attraction affirmations for love after trauma

• This new relationship brings me joy and a renewed sense of hope.
• I am grateful for the love and support that my new partner brings into my life.
• Our connection is healing old wounds and filling my heart with happiness.
• I am open to receiving love and letting go of past hurts.
• My partner’s kindness and understanding help me heal in ways I never imagined.
• Together, we create a safe and nurturing space where healing can take place.
• I am learning to trust and love again, thanks to their patience and compassion.
• Our relationship is a source of strength and comfort during my healing journey.
• I feel understood and accepted for who I am, scars and all.
• Each day with my partner brings new opportunities for healing and growth.
• Their presence in my life is a blessing that I cherish deeply.
• We communicate openly and honestly, building a foundation of trust and respect.
• My partner’s love helps me see the beauty in myself and in life again.
• I am releasing old patterns and embracing new possibilities with their support.
• Every day, I learn that I can be happier than I ever thought was possible. 
• I am reclaiming my sense of worth and rediscovering my inner strength.
• Together, we are creating a future filled with love, happiness, and healing.
• I am letting go of past fears and embracing the present moment with joy.
• My partner’s encouragement inspires me to pursue my dreams with confidence.
• I am grateful for the lessons learned from past challenges, which led me to this healing relationship.
• Our connection is a beautiful journey of healing and growth, both individually and together.
• I am worthy of love, and my partner’s love reaffirms this truth every day.
• They support me unconditionally, helping me to heal and thrive.
• Our love is a beacon of hope that illuminates my path toward healing and happiness.
• I am embracing the healing power of love, knowing that I am deserving of this beautiful relationship.

Affirmations for love in existing relationships or long-term relationships

• Our love grows deeper and stronger with each passing day.
• I am grateful for the deep emotional connection we share.
• We support each other’s dreams and aspirations wholeheartedly.
• Our relationship is a sanctuary of love, trust, and mutual respect.
• I cherish the memories we have created together over the years.
• I feel so fortunate to have a true partner to go through life with. 
• Our bond is built on a foundation of friendship and genuine affection.
• I am blessed to have a partner who understands and accepts me completely.
• We communicate openly and honestly, fostering understanding and intimacy.
• I am committed to nurturing our love and making our relationship thrive.
• We celebrate each other’s achievements and milestones with joy.
• Our love is enduring, standing the test of time and growing stronger.
• I am inspired by the love and commitment we share.
• No matter how much time goes by, I always feel like a priority to my partner. 
• I am grateful for the laughter and joy my partner brings into my life.
• Our love is a source of comfort and support in times of need.
• I am proud of the life we have built together, filled with love and happiness.
• We are a team, facing life’s adventures hand in hand.
• I am secure in the knowledge that I am deeply loved and valued.
• Our relationship continues to evolve, deepening our understanding and appreciation of each other.
• I am thankful for the stability and security our relationship provides.
• Our love is resilient, able to weather any storm that comes our way.
• I am committed to growing and evolving together as individuals and as a couple.
• We cherish the small moments of everyday life together.
• My partner and I are so close and connected that it’s like we can read each other’s minds.

I hope these affirmations bring you exactly what you’re dreaming of!